Archive for January, 2009
1000 Questions For Couples by Michael Webb
Friday, January 30th, 2009 | Family | No Comments
Marie wasn’t sure what happened. James was so attractive, so captivating. The chemistry was instant, and within a few short weeks, they were married. For several months, everything was wonderful. They laughed, they talked for hours on end, they made love with abandon. She felt like he was truly her soul mate. But then, things started to go downhill. They started arguing, and she learned quickly of his dark side. A scant year after they married, they divorced. Oh she wished how she had 1000 questions for couples, michael webb, questions to ask your boyfriend, questions to ask your girlfriend.
It is a sad predicament when time and time again couples divorce saying that they never really knew each other that well, and their core values and attitudes clashed. It is unfortunate that many people think that chemistry and sexual attraction alone is enough to support a marriage. Almost half of all marriages will end in break-up, and for the number of divorcees, the statistical probability that those new marriages will end in divorce is much greater. Much of this heartache can be avoided, however with 1000 questions for couples, michael webb, questions to ask your boyfriend, questions to ask your girlfriend. This groundbreaking new book can save most marriages by probing deep compatibility issues.
1000 questions for couples, michael webb, questions to ask your boyfriend, questions to ask your girlfriend is not like any relationship book ever released. It dares to ask the most sensitive and important questions for any love relationship, and also explores fun, get-to-know-you-better questions. Some dating or engaged couples go through pre-marriage counseling attempting to decide long term compatibility. This book, by Michael Webb does much more. Such counseling can be hit or miss, some important issues are discussed in detail, while others are ignored or missed altogether.
With 1000 questions for couples, michael webb, questions to ask your boyfriend, questions to ask your girlfriend hits 1000 questions about life, opinions and attitudes in 21 different categories, including: Personality, feelings and emotions, Pets, Health, food and well being, Communication, Morals, convictions and beliefs, sex, and children and child rearing. Michael Webb is an acclaimed, bestselling author of 13 books and has been featured on many television shows, including Oprah and the 700 Club. He has been featured in over 50 magazines and every major newspaper in the U.S., as well as numerous radio programs.
Conquer Commitment Phobia With Subliminal Messaging, Hypnosis, and Positive Affirmations
Friday, January 30th, 2009 | Relationships | No Comments
This is a guest article from Dan Bainbridge on how to get over your commitment phobia – with ideas ranging from subliminal cds to hypnotherapy, and positive affirmations.
When your partner says “let’s take it to the next level” does this make you nervous? Do you get cold feet at the mere thought of settling down? Do you end relationships with compatible partners because of your commitment fears? If the answer is yes then you probably do suffer from a fear of commitment!
A lot of people disguise their commitment phobia with terms like “free-spirited” and “flirtatious”, but what gives them away is their own sense of loneliness. People with a commitment phobia often pretend to be happy, but deep have an internal fear, which only makes them lonely and scared. They fear rejection and hurt, which is why they reject and hurt others before anyone can get a chance to do the same to them. If you can identify with this, perhaps the following tips will help you get over your commitment phobia:
Try hypnotherapy: Sometimes past hurts, such as childhood abuse, a painful break-up, betrayal by a loved one, parent’s divorce (in early childhood) or a loved one’s death can get so deeply entrenched in a person’s subconscious that they start affecting his/her behavior. Hypnotherapy can resolve your issues and release any painful memories you have surrounding these issues. A trained hypnotherapist can re-program your mind in such a way that you can start accepting new positive ideas about relationships and commitment.
Listen to subliminal messages- Subliminal messages are beyond the perception of the conscious mind but have the power to influence and re-program the subconscious. Subliminal messaging can have a fantastic benefit on your mind and help you to overcome your commitment issues. Their regular use will make you think positively towards your relationship and make you want to stay with your partner and grow your relationship - looking forward to a bright future instead of worrying about it.
Positive affirmations- Repeat positive affirmations like, “I deserve to love and to be loved”, “I welcome loving and kind people into my life” and “I love and appreciate myself the way I am”, to let go of your insecurities about relationships and love.
A loving relationship can be amazing, do not let your fears ruin something which may have fill your life with joy.
The Real Secret Of Attraction
Friday, January 30th, 2009 | Relationships | No Comments
What is the secret of attraction? You probably know this has become one of the hottest new ideas in self improvement and spirituality. But it isn’t a new idea. It is just the newest way to recycle an old idea. Old or new, the important questions are does it work as claimed, and why?
A “Law” Of Attraction?
Here is the basic idea: You attract more of what you think about. Keep thoughts about getting rich in your mind constantly, and money will come your way. Continually imagine the perfect woman, and soon she will appear at your side. It is often presented like this. Of course, years ago, in previous incarnations, it was more common to teach this idea as part of general goal-setting techniques, where it was assumed that you would also be taking relevant actions to achieve your goals. In this latest version, the action part is glossed over, almost as if it isn’t necessary.
Naturally, we like the idea of easy ways to get what we want, and of simple “laws” that can help us. Our knowledge of the laws of nature and mathematics allowed men to fly to the moon. Wouldn’t it be great if we could discover infallible “laws” of self improvement and success? Simple formulas that get us anything we want - I like that. But “laws” like these tend to be mere probabilities unfortunately.
How inspiring is “the probability of attraction?” Not very. “Think these thoughts and you’ll improve your odds of getting what you want” just doesn’t sell the books as well as “Think these thoughts and your success is guaranteed by the ultimate laws of reality.” But enough of poking fun at the sellers of mystical certainties - let’s look at how this really works.
Is The Reticular Cortex The Secret Of Attraction?
The reticular cortex is a small organ in your brain, a kind of “gatekeeper” that directs incoming stimulus to your conscious or unconscious mind. With your thoughts and what you focus on, you more or less instruct it as to what to bring to your attention. For example, if you start studying flowers, you will likely start to see flowers all over that you never previously noticed. You essentially instructed your reticular cortex to let in anything about flowers and related information.
Keep your thoughts focused on money, and this part of your brain will make you more aware of things related to money, even possibly opportunities to make some money. Imagine meeting the woman of your dreams repeatedly, and you’ll probably become aware of more opportunities for this to happen. This is one way in which the brain works, and we can use such “attraction techniques” to help us get what we want.
But the important, if uninspiring word here, is “probably”. If you start to believe that such “secrets” always work, you will likely give up on the idea when you fail, or blame yourself (you just didn’t have enough faith, right?). Neither of these is a very productive approach to getting what you want. It is better to accept that sometimes things work and sometimes they don’t, and that if you keep trying in ways that increase the probabilities of success, you’ll almost certainly achieve your goals more often.
Focus on your goals then, because it does increase the probabilities of success, by putting the reticular cortex to work. However, you should also learn what you need to learn, and do what you need to do to get what you want. Getting your mind AND your actions working towards that goal is the real secret of attraction.
Getting Over A Breakup and Meeting New Women
Wednesday, January 28th, 2009 | Relationships | 1 Comment
by Dean Cortez, creator of the Mack Tactics Dating System For Men
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Hey Dean,
My best friend Jim is in trouble. He needs a Mack Intervention. He hasn’t hooked up in over a year. He says he’s fed up with playing “the game”…and with the shitty luck he’s had, I can’t say I blame him. He’s been dumped, cheated on, and stood up more times than I can remember.
When I get him out of the house to come hang out at a bar, or a club, he refuses to even talk to women. The wind has been ripped from his sails. He’s formed this attitude that all women are bitches—especially the good-looking ones—and he’d rather just avoid the pain.
I just need to get my buddy laid. It doesn’t need to be a hottie. Can you suggest some pickup tactics, or a place to take him, so that I can break him out of his slump?
- Billy, Connecticut
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Dean Cortez here with some Tactical advice…
As for wanting to get your buddy laid, your intentions are good, but you wouldn’t really be helping him. In his emotional state, a one-night stand or a “happy ending” at the massage parlor might be the last thing he needs.
What Jim needs to learn is the art of how to attract women. Once he does, he’ll be operating with an advantage instead of a disadvantage. Rather than allowing women to judge him (and reject him), he’ll be attracting women into his life on a constant basis.
M.A.C.K. Tactics is about arming men with a set of tools and skills that they can use forever. Because the truth is, once you enter into a serious relationship, it’s important that you remain a masculine, confident guy who continues to make your woman feel attracted. Once you start slipping back into your “old” ways, that’s when she’ll start to tune out, and all kinds of problems develop.
As the saying goes, “You can give a man a fish, and feed him for a day. Or, you can teach a man to fish and feed him for a lifetime.”
I’d have to say most guys don’t believe they have what it takes to attract women. This is the status quo among single men, even though they might be able to fake a certain level of confidence. These guys aren’t always misfits who are totally clueless and awkward around women. They could be that crew of well-dressed guys standing around at the nightclub, who look like they’re out to meet girls and make something happen tonight, but in reality they fully expect to go home alone. (Since that’s what happens every time they go out.)
I can understand why so many guys lose heart. I wouldna’t show up at my job every day with a great attitude if I hadn’t gotten a paycheck in months. For guys who don’t understand how to attract women, it becomes demoralizing. Hanging around in bars and clubs and trying to meet girls, and getting shot down, is always painful. Or, bringing a girl out on a date and being super-polite and charming for two hours, but then you never see her again because she says she’s “too busy”.
Why should these guys continue to approach women and risk their self-esteem, or any more of their time and money, when there is seldom any reward?
The answer is to abandon your old ways, and your old mentality, and become a Mack. The Mack never operates from a position of fear or anxiety, because he understands how attraction works.
You can learn a bunch of different pickup lines or “routines” that will help break the ice with women. You can have a great sense of humor. You can even have the looks of a Chippendale dancer and drive a Ferrari. But if you don’t understand and master how attraction works, women are never going to be into you on a deeper level.
Will the Chippendale get attention from women? Sure. Some women will eagerly hand over their phone numbers, go on dates with him, and perhaps sleep with him because he’s got those superficial qualities that women are taught to think are “attractive.”
But if he doesn’t understand how to project the key masculine qualities that women respond to on an instinctual feminine level, even a guy with looks and money is going to wind up alone and ignored, just like regular guys. You’d be surprised how many decent-looking, wealthy men are out there, struggling to find a quality woman who wants them for anything other than their money—because they don’t know how to stimulate real attraction in women, and they don’t know how to talk to women.
Consider the average guy. If you sat him down on his living room couch next to a beautiful woman, he’d be utterly clueless about how to make her feel attraction for him. Instead he will do exactly what she expects him to do.
He’ll be really nice and do things to please her, while hoping that if they spend enough time together, she’ll eventually realize that he’d be a great boyfriend.
Unfortunately, this will never happen. What happens is that within the first minute or two, she realizes that she is NOT into this guy, and she starts figuring out her “exit strategy” to get away from him.
The Mack, on the other hand, understands how to “build a bridge” with her through creative conversation, and then escalate the situation to a physical level. He does it in a smooth, subtle way so that it never feels rushed or forced. As things progress, it feels natural and comfortable.
Most importantly, he does not operate from a position of scarcity and need. (“I don’t want to rush things and screw it up, because who knows when I’ll have another chance with a girl this hot?”)
Instead, he operates from a position of confidence and abundance. (“I have plenty of options, and women find me attractive. Right now I’m enjoying getting to know this particular girl, so I’ll see how far I can take it.”)
The good news is that there are proven methods, and an actual step-by-step process, for making women feel attraction for you. Take a look at MackTactics.com and you can download a free 80-page book called the S.W.A.T. Guide (Secret Weapons & Attraction Tactics) that will get you started on the right path.
There’s no sense in wasting another night, or any more of your money, playing “the game” the way every other guy does. If you’re ready to start dating the women you deserve—and the women who deserve you—it’s time to Go Tactical.
Your Wingman,
Dean Cortez
MackTactics.com
How To Know When A Girl Is Into You
Wednesday, January 28th, 2009 | Relationships | No Comments
by Dean Cortez
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Dear Dean,
I’m a social guy and I meet girls all the time when I go out. I’ve got a good sense of humor so it’s pretty easy for me to start a conversation and get a girl laughing. But sometimes I can’t tell if they’re only interested in friendly conversation, or if they’re open to taking things to another level. How can I tell if a girl is into me?
Simon
Houston, TX
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Every guy wants to know how to attract women.For many guys it’s not that challenging to engage a girl in a conversation. If you’re a handsome dude, some women will be drawn to your looks; if you’re a funny guy, they might stick around because you make them laugh.
But making them feel deep, sexual attraction requires a certain process. Once the conversation is moving along, then you’ll want to figure out where you stand with her.
Part of gauging her attraction is establishing that you have standards. You’re not just hoping to meet a girl; you’re interested in meeting an incredible girl who has the qualities you are looking for. You don't ever want to feel like you're autioning for woman. You want to flip it around and make them audition for YOU.
The most effective way to do this is to use qualifying statements or questions to challenge her, and at the same time, test her attraction level. Knowing how to talk to girls in this way is essential to your success.
“Jenny, before we go any further with this conversation, I should tell you: there’s no way I could ever marry a woman who doesn’t know how to go out and cut loose and have a good time.” (Or doesn’t like to cook, travel, who doesn’t have a sense of humor, etc – throw out a quality and make it sound like it’s one of your big “criteria” with women.)
When you say this, you may have no idea whether she possesses this quality or not, and it may not even be that important to you. You’re just playfully throwing out some bait to see what she does with it. The fact that you’re talking about whether she’s qualified to be your wife, during the first conversation, is meant to be humorous. But every woman wants to believe she has the right stuff, and therefore if she’s attracted to you at all, she is going to have an immediate reaction.
She will most likely:
a) Qualify herself back: “I cook! You should taste my lasagna.” Or, “Are you kidding me? I love to go out, I’m all about good times.” (This is good; it shows that she wants to impress you.)
b) Qualify you back: “Oh, I have to cook, huh? Well, I need a guy that can change my car’s oil. Can you do that?” (She’s savvy to your game, and she wants to keep playing. There’s some attraction here, so keep working.)
c) Flunk herself: “Sorry, I can’t cook to save my life.” Or, “I’m too busy with work to go out.” (Here, she makes no attempt to “sell” you on herself. She’s either hasn’t developed an attraction to you yet, or is simply not interested for whatever reason.)
A qualifying question means phrasing the same sentiment in the form of a question, while expressing interest at the same time. “Jenny, you’re cute and all, but I can’t go any further in our relationship until I know something: are you the uptight type, or do you like to go out on the weekends and cut loose?”
The result is the same: you’re challenging her to prove herself. If she does, she’s interested. If she doesn’t, don’t sweat it: it probably just means you need to backtrack, and build that attraction.
Here are the basic steps towards building attraction up:
1) Active listening: nod and maintain eye contact with her. She has to feel that you really hear her. Ask her questions about what she said. If you’re in a noisy environment, lean in close so that you don’t miss a word. (This also closes the physical gap between the two of you.) Use short phrases to encourage her to keep talking and sharing: “Hmm, that’s really interesting.” “I can see why you feel that way.” “It’s interesting that you would say that. Tell me more.”)
2) Relax and breathe at the same rate she does. This will help you fall into mirroring her body language naturally. (Note: Do not try too hard to mirror her body language, as this usually looks phony and contrived. Just let it happen naturally; notice her groove, and settle into it.)
3) Find things in common. Obviously we want to be around people that are similar to us. When you figure out something you have in common with her, let her know that it's something you share with her. This could be anything from a love of travel, to being a fan of a certain author or band. The more you explore this common experience, the better—but let her do most of the talking.
4) Get her to realize something on an emotional level. A very effective to build rapport with women, and gain their confidence, is helping them come to a decision and motivate them to do something they may be scared of. This is intensely arousing to a woman because it demonstrates leadership ability, and it will connect her to you. Get her to reveal a goal or aspiration that she doesn’t share with many people, and be encouraging.
“Jenny, I think it’s admirable that you’re thinking about starting your own business. I don’t think you should wait—I think you should go for it. I have a feeling that you’d be awesome at it.”
Every woman has something she’d rather be doing with her life, or wants to achieve someday. Help her to crystallize it in her mind and encourage her to take action. Whenever you spend time with her from this point forward, this is a subject you can always talk about. It will put her in a positive frame of mind, and reinforce you as a leader and positive influence—masculine qualities that women are deeply attracted to.
For more than 101 techniques and tactics to attract the women, visit MackTactics.com.
Your Wingman,
Dean Cortez
Discover How To Attract Girls
Wednesday, January 28th, 2009 | Relationships | No Comments
Have you ever wanted to know the secret behind how to attract girls?
Contrary to what the media feeds you, attracting girls is something that doesn’t just happen. Unlike what most women believe, fate and destiny have nothing to do with what made her like you.
All females are drawn to certain attributes of a man. So once you know how to demonstrate your personality to women in a sexy way, you will be able to get girls easily.
So what are the attractive attributes that I am talking to you about?
You have to let her know that you are interested in being more than a friend. This is a big one, because once you’re in the friends zone, it is very hard to escape there.
You have to be the man, and let her know that you regard yourself as a high status male. You need to be an alpha male and make decisions, say no to her sometimes and know what you want in life.
Please, don’t be that guy who has no standards of what he wants in life and just simply goes with the flow. It’s sexy to have aspirations! It’s even better and more impressive to actually achieve your dreams!
You need to stand out and be a challenge and let her know that just because she’s a cutey she can’t make you do whatever she wants. If you want to know how to attract girls, you need to do what attractive girls do. They all play hard to get so they make themselves a challenge.
I know this post is a bit short… I’m a little rushed for time. But if you want a complete guide on How To Attract Girls including a sample conversation on how to sweet talk a girl, check out: Discover How To Attract Girls
If you are not experiencing the dating success that you want, you need to go there right now and check out my site. Have a think about it, what do you have to lose?
How To Get Hot Girls In Las Vegas
Wednesday, January 28th, 2009 | Relationships | No Comments
by Dean Cortez, MackTactics.com
So you’re single and you’ve recently relocated to Vegas. You’re adjusting to the broiling heat, always splitting your Aces and 8’s at the blackjack tables, and on a mission to hook up. You want to know how to pick up a hot girl in Sin City.
For guys, the Vegas singles scene presents its own unique challenges—along with an infinite assortment of stunners from every city in America and corner of the planet. Here’s some advice and dating tactics for you would-be Casanovas looking to score on the Strip:
Build your network. Whenever you hit the nightlife scene, make it a point to befriend doormen, VIP hosts and managers. In Vegas, these people tend to be courteous professionals. Introduce yourself, strike up a quick conversation, and compliment them on their establishment. Being on good terms with these people will get you preferential treatment, and the girls always notice a guy who strolls in and gets a friendly welcome from the people in charge.
Hit the clubs in style. Ever since Light at the Bellagio casino introduced the concept of “bottle service,” Vegas nightclubs have been devoting practically all of their seating to patrons who reserve tables and purchase bottles of liquor. Most guys who are new to Vegas assume you have to be a celebrity, or "connected," to get a VIP table. Tables are open to anyone, if they're not all booked up, and they are well worth the price. Sure, it might run your group a few hundred bucks, but in today’s club scene that’s the price of having a great time versus standing around with the tourists and having to push through crowds to get a refill. And best of all, you can invite women to sit down at your table and have a drink. It’s the easiest opening line in the world: “Why don’t you ladies come join us at our table for a drink.”
Know how to work the tourists. When women come to party in Las Vegas, they behave in wild ways that they wouldn't back home. Let them know you've got “insider” status, being a local, and make them want to get a little wild. My buddy has a really good routine. After finding out a hottie is from out of town, he’ll tell her, “y’know, whenever I visit a new city for the weekend, I always want to have one amazing night I’ll never forget as long as I live. I can tell you want to have a big night…you seem like an adventurous, spontaneous woman.” Get her in this mindset and play yourself up the guy who’s going to give her this experience. Invite her and her crew to come with you to a different bar or nightclub, preferably a new place they haven't seen, or a cool "insider" spot. Make it seem like a super cool “insider” place that most people don’t know about.
Learn when to call it a night. In every other city in America, the concept of “last call” exists—when the bars close down and you’re forced to either make a regrettable hookup or go home to pass out. Never in Las Vegas. At a time of day when your parents are finishing their breakfast, you can keep partying in after-hours clubs or bars that never close. For many guys, this means stumbling into a strip club and drunkenly hitting on exotic dancers to whom they are nothing more than an ATM machine on two legs—only to wake up the following afternoon with a screaming hangover and vague recollections of blowing an outrageous amount of cash on lapdances from some chick named “Mercedes.” (Or was it “Lexus?”)
Master the rules of the Vegas game, and you can roll like a rock star any night of the week. You have to be strategic and understand the Vegas "game". Remember the words of comedian Bill Maher: “For a man to walk into a bar and have his choice of any woman he wants, he would have to be the ruler of the world. For a woman to have the same power over men, she’d have to do her hair.”
For the best dating advice on how to meet single girls, talk to them, build connections, and close the deal with them, visit MackTactics.com and download our free 80-page book: "The S.W.A.T. Guide” (Secret Weapons & Attraction Tactics). You can download the book now for free, but we need to end this offer soon!
Your Wingman,
Dean Cortez
My Secret Technique for Making Younger Women Feel Attracted
Wednesday, January 28th, 2009 | Relationships | No Comments
Dean Cortez here. In this column I’ll answer a question one of my readers had about how to get a very hot younger woman back to his place… and I decided to reveal a very simple but extremely effective strategy that I’ve been using recently.
Special tactics must be used, and special considerations made, when the situation involves an older man and younger woman. In order to pull off an older man-younger woman relationship, you’ve got to understand — and know how to counter — her suspicions, anxieties, and insecurities. Even more importantly, you’ve got to know the advantages that you possess as an older guy — and how to capitalize on them.
Anyway, on to the letter…
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Hi Dean,
I’m a 39-year-old advertising executive and the other day, I met a girl at my gym who is a KNOCKOUT.
24 years old, from Brazil, and so friggin' beautiful that every guy in the room couldn't stop staring
when she got on the Stairmaster!
I was lucky enough to be on the Stairmaster next to her, and I used some of the techniques
in your "Dating Younger Women" program to start a cool conversation with her.
I “closed” the conversation by getting her phone number and telling her I was going to check out this new Brazilian restaurant on Friday night. I mentioned the great food and music, told her I knew she would love it, and invited her to come along. (Your book taught me how to get a girls phone number the correct way, and ask her out, instead of fumbling and getting turned down.)
So, we are set to go out on Friday night…
But Dean, my brother, this is no ordinary date.
This chick is the woman of my dreams. I've always had a thing for hot, curvy Brazilian women with incredible bodies and long, silky black hair…
Really, is there a guy out there who doesn't? Lol…
Anyway, I could really use some special advice to make sure this date goes perfectly.
I don't want a hug and a handshake at the end of the night. I want to take this girl home and
“seal the deal.”
Can you hook me up with a Tactic that is guaranteed to score a home run?
- Rich, New York City
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Dean Cortez here. I’ve got a move for this situation that I developed recently, and it’s KILLER.
A big thing you need to understand is, women have a natural "fear of the unknown".
This is why it’s so important to project that you are a safe, stable, trustworthy guy.
You can make this happen by dropping hints (or "planting seeds") during the conversation. You already know all about this if you’ve read my books.
Now in this situation…when your objective is to bring her back to your place tonight…and she’s never been to your place before…it is natural for her to feel some reluctance.
This is because your place -- your environment -- is UNKNOWN to her.
Her female radar “kicks in,” and her mind comes up with reasons NOT to go there, such as…
- Your pad is dirty and unsanitary. (Women feel uncomfortable in that type of environment.)
- You might have some weirdo roommate who is going to creep her out.
- You might have a girlfriend or wife that you didn’t tell her about — and she might show up and start some drama!
- You might live REALLY far away. When she drives home later, she might have trouble finding the way back to her place.
Those are just a sample of the concerns that could be popping up in her mind. It doesn’t matter if your residence has none of those issues. TELLING her that your place is clean, and close, and comfortable, isn’t really going to assuage her concerns. She needs to experience it for herself.
So here is my point: you need to ELIMINATE her concerns, suspicions, and fears and make it EASY for her to think, "sure, your place sounds fine. Let’s go there.”
So how do you make her think this way?
You let her see and feel your place, and get familiar with it, before you bring her on the date!
It’s actually SUPER easy to do…
Here's how you should play it. When you call her and set up the date, tell her to MEET YOU outside of your place, so that you can ride in your car together and go to the date location.
(Bar, restaurant, coffee shop, whatever.)
Women ALWAYS agree to this. Because A), they are curious about where you live. They are nosy! They want to check out the exterior of your home/apartment/condo.
(Notice, you didn’t say “come over and hang out at my place.” You said, “meet me OUTSIDE my place so that we can ride to the restaurant together.”
And B), they feel more comfortable riding in your car with you, especially if the date location is a place they are not familiar with. She'd probably rather have you drive her there.
OK, now here is how to use this Tactic –
When her car pulls up to your place, go outside — like you’re ready to go on the date — and then tell her you forgot to do something. You need to go back inside and send an email or make a phone call:
“Hey! How are you…oh my God, I just remembered, I need to send an email (or make a phone call) before we go. It's for my work. Come inside for a minute.”
She will agree to this. Naturally, she is wondering about what your setup is like.
So you walk her inside …
Get her a glass of wine, or a bottle of water (never from the tap), and then go into the other room and pretend to send your email or make your phone call.
The idea is this: you are letting her GET FAMILIAR with your place. This will no longer be an “unknown environment” to her.
While you spend 5 or 10 minutes in the other room, you are leaving her alone to CHECK OUT your pad.
And trust me, she WILL check it out. She’ll snoop around a little, look at your pictures, maybe check inside your fridge…she'll look for any evidence of a girlfriend (or wife) you didn't mention…
And this means you MUST have a clean place. Your bathroom needs to be totally spotless. I'm serious, your bathroom should be absolutely germ-free! That’s how clean it should be.
Why? Because she will probably want to use it. (Scented candles and plush bath towels will make the right impression.)
So, after 5 or 10 minutes, you finish up your “business” and you come back into the living room and rejoin her. Now the two of you get in your car and go on your date.
That all sounded very simple. But that quick trip inside your place will make a big difference later tonight.
Because, at the end of the date, when you suggest going back to your place — to have a glass of wine, watch a movie, or whatever other strategy you use from my Dating Younger Women program – she ALREADY KNOWS your environment.
She already KNOWS that your home is a comfortable place to go back to, and chill out.
It's clean and private, and she knows that you're a good host who makes her feel comfortable.
So you take her out for a nice time, you get her back to your place, and that is when the MAGIC happens 
I used that simple tactic last week with two different hot younger women — a 23 year old, and a 27 year old.
Use it -- and enjoy. Check out the site YoungerDating.com to learn the secrets that over 25 top dating and seduction gurus use to flirt with younger women. An older man-younger women relationship is a lot more natural — and easy to pull off — than you think!
Your Wingman,
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How Seduction Techniques Can Help Your Personnel and Business Life
Wednesday, January 28th, 2009 | Relationships | No Comments
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Is A Sense of Humor Sexy To Women?
Wednesday, January 28th, 2009 | Relationships | No Comments
by Dean Cortez, founder of M.A.C.K. Tactics
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Dean, I was having drinks recently with a group of girls and we started talking about relationships. I asked them, “What is the #1 most attractive quality you look for in a guy?” They all agreed that a “sense of humor” is the biggest thing.
Is this really true, or are they just trying to make us think they’re not shallow? In reality, won’t they always prefer a dude who looks like a Calvin Klein underwear model and has a lot of money?
-Brad, New York City
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Hey, Dean Cortez here. Yes, it’s true that a lot of women will say a sense of humor is one of the most attractive male qualities. Why do women seem to put so much importance on whether a guy is funny or not? Does a sense of humor actually turn them on?
Well, no. Not actually. I’ve known guys who were the “class clown” in high school, and were extremely funny, but they were utterly hopeless with getting women. So how much do women really value this quality?
The truth is that women value the qualities that a sense of humor implies. When women picture a guy with a healthy, easygoing sense of humor, they think of someone who doesn’t take himself too seriously; who is at ease in social situations; who has interesting things to say beyond the usual clichés (“So where are from?”, “What do you do for fun?” etc); and who enjoys good conversation. They could care less about a guy who knows a bunch of jokes and acts like a goofball at parties.
Having a sense of humor, and using it subtly, is important for getting her into a relaxed mindset. It’s part of the process of learning how to romance a girl. It will break the ice and get the conversation started with some good energy. But it’s not the quality that is going to trigger her “attraction switches. Once you’ve got her in that relaxed mind frame, you’ve got to take the reigns and keep moving the conversation in that direction.
Is telling a gut-busting joke going to convince a woman to jump into bed with you? Never. Is she looking to date the funniest guy in the room, who’s constantly firing off hilarious one-liners? No. Men who try to keep things light and funny at all times are trying to cover up their inability to “get real” and create deep, interesting conversation.
When you use humor correctly (being witty and sharp is the goal, not “funny”), another benefit is that it masks your intentions, whatever your goal with her may be. You don’t need to know romantic conversation starters. It’s a rule of human nature that we feel uncomfortable when we sense that someone is trying to GET something from us. This is why I try to avoid going to car dealerships! I can’t stand dealing with over-aggressive salesmen.)
In most instances when an attractive girl is approached by a guy, she immediately sense that he wants something (to buy her a drink, get her phone number, arrange a date, etc.) and her “force field” goes on high alert. Then, when he opens the conversation in a cliché way, she knows he’s just trying to get something from her, and she tunes out.
On the other hand, starting things off on a light, witty note will help lower her shield. But it won’t eliminate it. To do that, you’ll have to use conversational techniques such as Teases and Qualifiers to keep things moving in the right direction. The Mack Tactics book is filled with these techniques, and you’ll find that you can get a girlfriend very easily when you use them.
Your Wingman,
Dean Cortez
MackTactics.com