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What Engagement Ring Material Should I Choose?
Sunday, November 30th, 2008 | Relationships | No Comments
What Engagement Ring Material Should I Choose?
There are three basic types of metal to choose from when it comes to engagement rings. Those include steal, gold and platinum. The most popular choice is a classic gold. Platinum is the next popular and steel is generally chosen either when someone has an allergy or when the couple wants to have alternative settings with the engagement ring and wedding band.
Here is a brief overview of these three common engagement ring metals:
Gold
Gold is, by far, the most popular choice when it comes to engagement and wedding rings. Gold rings come in two varieties: white gold and yellow gold. Additionally, you can purchase pink gold and a variety of shades of yellow gold. Gold can be purchased by the carat. The higher the carat is, the softer and more expensive the gold piece will be. 12 carat gold is the most common engagement ring choice, but it goes up to 24 carat for the very fine rings. However, it is recommended that you do not go quite as high because it is important that your engagement ring is durable and will last for generations with out getting dented or bent.
Platinum
Platinum is a popular option for couples that either have allergies to gold or want a stronger metal. Platinum is often more expensive than gold, but it also is more durable and has nearly the same color as white gold (the color is silver). Platinum does not bed as easily as gold. Thus, if you think that the diamond you purchase will be expensive, it might be a good idea to investigate the price of Platinum as well. Platinum has less chance of the setting bending, which would result in a lost stone.
Steel
Most engagement rings are not actually made of steel. However, steel wedding bands are relatively popular among men and women. Steel wedding bands are hypoallergenic and are extremely durable.
Titanium
Titanium is a newer, more expensive wedding band material that some couples enjoy. Titanium has the color of chrome and is stronger than steel. Many couples prefer the stronger metal because they believe that it is an allegory for the strength of a relationship.
While there are a multitude of engagement ring metals to choose from, it is important that you do your research into each type so that you can purchase a ring that is right for you and your future spouse. The ring should be a testament to the bond that the two of you share. As such, make it special!
What If I Don’t Like the Engagement Ring He Selected?
Friday, November 28th, 2008 | Relationships | No Comments
What If I Don’t Like the Engagement Ring He Selected?
Nearly every boyfriend has worried about his future-fiancé not like thing engagement ring that he selects for her. Trust that before he has selected and purchased your engagement ring, he has done loads of research into what’s available and what would most closely suit your unique style. Still, if he happens to purchase a ring that does not directly suit your tastes, what should you do?
Before answering this question, it is important to ask yourself two questions: what does this engagement ring mean to me? And will I be happy to wear the ring he selected everyday for the rest of my life? Here is some advice for addressing these two questions:
What does this engagement ring mean to me?
The engagement ring is a symbol of your love. It is a hand-selected token of the bond that the two of you share and will continue to develop for years and years to come.
Will I be happy to wear thins ring everyday for the rest of my life?
You should feel proud to show off your engagement ring - the symbol of your love. Therefore, if you do not feel proud of the engagement ring that your fiancé has selected, chances are good that you will silently resent his selection.
It is better to appreciate the ring and truly love it than to convince yourself that you will be able to someday love the ring simply because it is a symbol of your love. An engagement ring is a symbolic token, but that doesn’t mean that is doesn’t have to be aesthetically attuned to your personal tastes.
If you do not like the engagement ring that your fiancé has selected, by all means, tell him so that you can exchange it for a ring that reflects your tastes and personality better. You can exchange the ring at most places for one that you love.
Broaching the subject of exchanging the ring can be tough. However, your fiancé should most likely bring it up first. If you have recently proposed to your girlfriend, it is important that you open this line of communication. Your new fiancé will not want to hurt your feelings by asking to exchange a ring that you are proud of. Therefore, it is up to you to let her know that if she is not completely happy with the engagement ring, she can exchange it for another.
What are the Diamond Shapes in engagement rings and their benefits?
Friday, November 28th, 2008 | Relationships | No Comments
What are the Diamond Shapes in engagement rings and their benefits?
When it comes to engagement rings, there are a multitude of style and shapes to choose from. Some affect the hand in different ways. Others have the advantage of making the rock appear to be larger than it actually is. Here is a very brief overview of several engagement ring styles, but be sure to do your research on your own to select the style that is right for you and your bride.
Keep in mind that in addition to the shape of the cut, the depth of the cut is also important in determining the quality of the stone. Make sure that you select a ring that has very nice symmetry and balance, rather than one that is too deep or too shallow.
Round
The round cut is the most popular. Basically, the top of the diamond is drilled in a circle so that it can be round. The benefit of the round cut is that six prongs usually hold it, which decreases the probability of it falling out of the setting.
Princess
The princess cut is the square-top cut that was made popular by Tiffany’s. The major benefit of the square cut is that it is trendy, attractive and full of color. However, because it is held in place using only four prongs, it can be easily lost if any of the prongs come loose.
Oval
The Oval ring is one of the less popular options, as most brides prefer the round cut. However, the benefit of the oval ring is that the length helps to elongate the hand while the softness helps to add a degree of character.
Pear
The pear shaped engagement ring is one of the least-popular options. In fact, it is so frequently not chosen, that many jewelry stores do not even carry it in stock. If you would like a pear-shaped ring, chances are high that you will have to either go online or special order your ring.
Marquis
The marquis shape is an oval with tips. It not only helps to make the hand appear longer and slimmer, but it also makes the diamond appear larger than it actually is. Marquis are a very popular cut, but are not liked by all brides.
When determining which cut is right for your bride, it is probably important to take a good look around at available options. There are plenty of options with engagement rings even if you go the ‘I’ll design my own engagement ring’ route.
What Can You Do If You Lose the Engagement Ring?
Friday, November 28th, 2008 | Relationships | No Comments
What Can You Do If You Lose the Engagement Ring?
If you happen to lose the engagement ring, you’re kind of out of luck, aren’t you? Particularly if it was a ring that she selected or if she was expecting the ring right when you bent down on one knee to propose. Well, it’s not the end of the world if you come up empty handed when you ask for your woman’s hand in marriage, but you probably won’t have the happiest of proposals if the ring truly is lost.
First things first- don’t panic. This sort of thing actually happens quite often and you can most likely find it. Perhaps in all of your pre-proposal nervousness you left the little gem on your dresser? Or maybe it’s in the pocket of the coat hanging by the door? Whatever the reason and location, you are sure to find the ring as long as you are patient - and have lost it in a location that does not frequently double as a giant black hole!
After your retrace the steps of your house, look in your car, your office and your friend’s car, if you have still not found the ring, then look again. And again. If after several attempts to retrace your steps have not produced your ring, then there is only one thing left do to: panic. Especially panic if it was an expensive engagement ring.
Being that you might not have intended to tell your would-be fiancé about the engagement, you may not want to tell her that you have lost the ring. Indeed, she will not only be sorry for you, and disappointed, and perhaps lose her faith in your ability to carry small objects, but she will likely know that you were planning to propose. Thus, any surprise element of the engagement will be stricken.
And yet, you will most likely be very sad and even frustrated because you cannot find the ring. Hopefully, you had not been saving for years for the ring, because the loss of it could put your engagement back a few years.
However, keep in mind that most men get insurance on the ring or some sort of warranties. Some warranties will cover lost or stolen rings, but you will pay a hefty price for it. It is highly advised that you purchase an insurance rider for your engagement ring, especially if it will be in your possession for more than a day. The rider is free, up to a certain limit, with many mortgages. Otherwise, you can get insurance only on the ring and agree to pay it for your fiancé, if she accepts.
Having some sort of insurance or security is critical if you are going to sustain your sanity after a lost ring. Your fiancé will also be impressed by your foresight and intelligence!
What are the Current Engagement Ring Trends?
Friday, November 28th, 2008 | Relationships | No Comments
What are the Current Engagement Ring Trends?
When it comes to engagement rings, there are changes in trends every decade. There was a time when everyone wanted a pear-shaped diamond. Now, many stores do not even stock the pear-shaped diamond. Once, everyone wanted ornate engagement rings. Now, brides are preferring to have very simple and streamlined designs.
Here is an overview of some of the most important trends in engagement rings.
1. Princess cut
The princess cut engagement ring is a square-shaped diamond that sits within a normal four-pronged setting. Tiffany’s made this cut very popular with young ladies all over the world. The princess cut is very simple because it only requires four prongs, whereas other shapes use six or more to hold the diamond in place.
When purchasing the princess cut, it is important to look at the color and brilliance of the reflection in order to determine rock quality. The clearer the ring, the more fire it will have when reflected in the sun. Spend some time comparing different princess cuts.
2. Princessa
The princessa cut is basically four small princess-cut rocks that are scaled and fit together to give the illusion of being one large princess-cut stone. While this style has increased in popularity among budget-shoppers, it is often perceived as a “cheap” method of purchasing a ring that you cannot afford. Some couples view it as the equivalent of purchasing a fake diamond - even though all of the princess pieces are genuine diamonds. The reason for this feeling is because the larger rock is meant to look like a 1 carat, for example, but is truly the equivalent of being a 1/2 carat. Most people say, “buy what you can afford, not what you want but can’t afford.”
3. Platinum
Platinum is an alternative to white gold and is more durable and will not dent, like gold could. Therefore, many brides would rather have a platinum band than a gold band. When selecting a platinum band, make sure that your bride likes the color silver and that she has no allergies to consider.
4. Six-pronged round diamond
The six-pronged round diamond has long-been a popular choice in rings among brides around the world. The major benefit of the six-pronged ring is that it is strong. The frequency of a diamond falling out of a six-pronged ring is relatively low, so you can be comfortable with the purchase. The style is also a classic and will be popular for years to come.
The Great Engagement and Wedding Ring Stone Debate
Tuesday, November 25th, 2008 | Relationships | No Comments
The Great Engagement and Wedding Ring Stone Debate
If you are a future-groom on a budget, then chances are high that you have spent countless hours looking around for the perfect engagement ring for your future wife. If you haven’t been looking, then it’s time to hit the shops. You will soon discover that there is more to engagement ring shopping than meets the eye.
When you are looking to purchase that perfect engagement ring, there are a multitude of considerations that you must be aware of if you are going to make an informed decision. You have to think about the color of the metal, the shape of the cut, the size of the diamond and the design of the setting.
One of the most important questions that you will take into consideration, especially if you are on any sort of budget, is the size and quality of the diamond. Diamonds vary greatly in price depending on how many carats they are and what the quality of the cut, clarity and color is. Therefore, it is essential that you perform ample research into what options are available before you hit the stored.
So that you are sure to get the exact engagement ring that your future fiancé will be enamored with, it is important that you spend time finding out what she likes. Even if you do not openly ask her about the engagement ring style, you should have a good sense of what style jewelry fits her taste. Does she like large pieces? Does she like the modern look? Would she prefer something small and elegant?
Many men find that they must choose between purchasing a larger diamond that has less quality and purchasing a smaller diamond that has greater quality. If you are one of these individuals (most people are) then take a moment to head this advice:
1. The ring can be upgraded. Your diamond ring can always be upgraded years down the road. In fact, many men purchase additional stones for their wives for their anniversaries.
2. The stone can be switched out. You can purchase a stone for a ring now, but then make it into a necklace piece later on.
3. The ring is about your love; not the price of the diamond. Therefore, the diamond you select should be the best representation of how you feel about your future wife (it’s up to you to figure out what that means for you in terms of size and quality.)
No matter what diamond you select, it is important to remember that the engagement ring is about you asking your love to become a part of your life in a very special and intimate way. It’s a symbol of a commitment that you will continue to make for as long as you stay together.
The Importance of the Engagement Ring Box
Tuesday, November 25th, 2008 | Relationships | No Comments
The Importance of the Engagement Ring Box
Many men spend hours, even days in jewelry shops searching for the perfect engagement ring. They look for the carat size, diamond cut, setting, color and certain sparkle that is perfect for their soon-to-be spouse. They look until they have found the perfect ring for that perfect finger. However, few men fail to think about the box in which the ring will be placed.
The box is the first thing that your future wife will see when you hand over the ring. It will tell of the quality and craftsmanship of the ring within the box and it will show her that you have spent time and consideration purchasing a ring that means everything to you and will to her. Therefore, it is important that you do take into consideration the quality of the box that holds the ring.
First and foremost, you should know that most fine jewelers will have boxes to accompany these rings. Many times, these boxes are made with a quality that is sufficient for your engagement ring. They will be durable, tasteful and made with high-quality materials.
If you are buying an antique ring, a ring that was used or a ring that comes in a lesser-than appropriate box, then you should know what to look for from an appropriate engagement ring box. Here are some guidelines:
1. Sturdiness
The sturdiness of the engagement ring box is very important. It may never be subjected to extreme pressure, but in the event that it is, you will want it to withstand and protect the ring. The top and the bottom should be aligned when they close and the seal should appear to be airtight so that it makes a “snap” sound when you close it.
2. Material
Ideally, the exterior of your box will be made of a fine felt material. The interior should be made of silk or a polyester blend. It should appear as if the ring is sitting in a bed of pillows or cotton.
3. Holder
The ring should slip right into a ring holder and stand straight up and down. It should appear as if you are presenting the ring to a queen and that the ring almost stands alone between the two pillows.
While the ring box is certainly not the most important part of the package that you are giving to your future wife, it is a critical part simply because it is the first thing that she will see when she opens her hand to receive your proposal. Make sure it is the highest quality box that you can find.
The Meaning of the Engagement Ring
Tuesday, November 25th, 2008 | Relationships | No Comments
The Meaning of the Engagement Ring
Engagement rings have been giving to fiancés for centuries as a symbol of the lasting love and bond that a man and a woman share together. Your engagement ring should be designed or selected specifically with your relationship in mind. Therefore, it is not a good idea to reuse engagement rings or to take the purchase of them for granted.
Many people even design their own engagement rings, either by getting artistic and hand-crafting them, or having a jeweler customize the stone and setting for them. When you personalize your engagement ring, you are creating a one-of-a-kind piece of jewelry that will last you and your wife for the decades to come.
Because an engagement ring is given at the time of a proposal, it is important that you assess the type and style of ring that your future wife would want. The proposal and the ring should be selected specifically for your girlfriend’s enjoyment and to suit her tastes. You are telling your girlfriend at the proposal time that you would like her to make a lifelong commitment to you and that, likewise, you are prepared to make a lifelong commitment to her. The ring is simply a symbol of that love.
It is important that when you present your girlfriend with the engagement ring that you are sincere and that you express your undying love and interest in her. You are asking her to abandon her state of being single and to join with you in what will be a lifetime of matrimony. The better your engagement speech is, the better your proposal will be in terms of meaning and impact.
Throughout the course of your marriage, it is important that you both always wear your rings. The rings will thus travel with you wherever you go and they will stay as a constant remembrance of the love that you share. The ring that you purchase will be worn for the rest of your wife’s life together, so it is important that you make the purchase of it wisely.
Generally, couples will upgrade the engagement ring on anniversaries and special occasions by adding additional stones or by changing the setting. Keep in mind that your engagement ring will serve to share your love not only for the duration of the life that you share with your wife, but chances are good that it will also stay in your family for generations as you pass it to your children and grand children.
The Benefits of Surprising her with an Engagement Ring
Tuesday, November 25th, 2008 | Relationships | No Comments
The Benefits of Surprising her with an Engagement Ring
When you decide to propose to the woman that you love, chances are certain that you have a significant degree of unanswered questions that you are dying to sort out. These questions are as basic as, “will she say yes?” and as comprehensive as, “How am I going to follow through with the proposal?” One of the most important questions that you will likely ask is, “Will I take her ring shopping, or will I go at it alone?”
The answer to this question will be different for different folks. One guy might know that is future wife desperately wants to select the ring on her own. Another guy might not have a clue. Here are some tips to help you sort out the answer to the age-old question: Do I surprise her with the engagement ring or let her select it?
1. What colors is her jewelry?
This is an easy-to-answer question that can help to narrow down your search results. Some women prefer white gold, while others prefer yellow gold. The difference between the two colors can mean the difference between a future-wife who has matching jewelry and a future wife that has one piece always off. Also, you will want to ensure that she has no gold allergies. In the event that she does, you will have to select a platinum band.
2. What shape does she like?
Diamonds come in a wide variety of shapes - from princess (square) to round and oblique. The shape of an engagement ring is often somewhat important to brides, as it is a matter of personal preference and taste. The shape of the ring is something that you may want to be sure of before making the investment into the ring.
3. How many carats will she want?
Some brides like small engagement rings. Others like large diamonds. Your bride will most likely have a preference, but she may not outwardly tell you because she does not want you to feel obligated to expend lots of cash on her. Therefore, it is important that you ask her friends to investigate the matter. Remember that you can always upgrade the size of the ring to a larger one once you have made the initial purchase.
4. Will she want to be surprised?
Many brides, no matter how in love and particular, enjoy being surprised by their significant others. Therefore, she will not want to know in advance what ring you select. It is important that you know if your future fiancé would rather be surprised or selective before you make your decision.
Purchasing your engagement ring is perhaps the most important decision that you will make in the early stages of your proposal. The engagement ring will be a symbol for your love and commitment and should be something that you are both proud to share together. If you are not sure whether or note she wants to be surprised, then ask either her or her friends. The answer is important.
The Four C’s of engagement rings
Tuesday, November 25th, 2008 | Relationships | No Comments
The Four C’s of engagement rings
The most basic thing to remember when searching for that perfect diamond for that perfect person is that all diamonds are rated and priced according to a system called the 4 C’s. the four C’s are: cut, clarity, carat, and color. Each of the C’s has its own system of ranking, which we will discuss in this article in more detail.
As with any big purchase, it is important that you spend ample time researching your options before you purchase that perfect engagement ring. You need to know that she has a high probability of saying yes, sure. But you also want to know that you are purchasing the best possible ring for her tastes. After all, this is a purchase that you will hopefully only have to make once. She will bear the honor of wearing your engagement ring for the rest of her life, so make sure it’s a ring that you would be proud to have her wear.
Now, here’s an overview of each of the four C’s. More information is, of course, available from a certified diamond jeweler.
Cut: There are more than half a dozen cuts for your diamond. Each shape accents the hand in a different way. The most popular cut is the round, which is literally, a diamond with a rounded top. The least popular cut is the pear-shaped cut. In recent years, the princess diamond has grown in popularity, largely due to the Tiffany’s retailer. The marquis is an elongated oval shape that many women prefer because it not only makes the hand look slimmer, but it makes the diamond appear to be larger.
Clarity: The clarity of the diamond means literally the clarity of the diamond. The more clear the diamond, the more light will be reflected through the angles of it. Many times, the difference in clarity is so minute that it is tough for the average person to recognize. However, if you want to ensure that you purchase a diamond of the highest clarity, then it is important to consult a trained jeweler to help you select the best option.
Carat: The higher the carat, the heavier the diamond, and thus, the more expensive. Most women prefer to have about one carat on their fingers, though it is entirely a matter of personal preference.
Color: The color of the diamond is affected by the clarity and the cut. The higher the clarity, the better the color. It is important that you spend time looking over your options for diamonds to observe how colors can be so different.